Resentment is an ugly feeling. It poisons you, breeding hate and anger. Do not assume resentment is necessary. When you feel resentful it means you feel someone is taking or has taken something from you. Figure out what that is and now you have something to work with. Until then you will behave as if you are a victim to your feelings, and no one wants that.

What a strange word: Forgive. For the longest time I didn’t feel like I understood what it meant. That’s not to say I wasn’t capable of forgiving I simply felt the word got thrown around a little too much without people really understanding what they were saying.

In decluttering your life, you will come across things you’ve spent money on that will be hard to let go of because of that money you spent. I came across this phrase recently, “The tyranny of sunk costs.” It’s meant to describe how we get more and more attached to things the more we spend. Then we become trapped by our stuff and our spent money.

Whew! 2020. Am I right? Yes, this has been one heck of a year. You don't need me to get into it. You were there, you know what happened. The first of the year is a time seen as an opportunity for new beginnings. It’s a nice clean day to hit the reset button.